Yes, yes, yes… Today I’ve been in the midst of that sense of “chaos”. With Mother passed over to the next level, and now Father trying to take on, mentally, all of the financial details Mother used to care for, seemingly effortlessly, well…
…it ain’t working. And I’ve sensed Dad is feeling it… Big Time.
My place has been as, sort of, a “Holder of the Higher View”, that all the details he seems to find comfort in “worrying” about, will be resolved, as I just write checks and “deal with them”.
I’ve been feeling some challenge at feeling responsible to help him navigate. But I’m probably going to have to drop that, and allow him to fumble through certain times “on his own”. Maybe he’ll come around and let go.
But maybe not.
I realized that I am not here to determine his path. I have no idea what his “visions” are for his own future. Or if he has any at all.
Mom was his life (at least for the past few decades) and that might tell the entire story.
We’ll see where this all goes.
One thing for sure, I’m rediscovering that I enjoy (and desire) the “Simple Life”.
Aloha, Kp
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